Cancer

Jun 21 - Jul 22

All About Cancer:

Cancer’s self-awareness is like the tides in the ocean. They’re continuously moving in and out of focus. Their personality is layered. They have many different moods, some of which are unpredictable, but they also have a deep, core self that perseveres. Cancers are weighed down by their own sorrows and the sadness of those around them. They are frequently haunted by grief. It’s tough for them to share their pain with others.

They are at times afraid to show vulnerability because they fear others will use their weakness against them. Cancers have learned to hide their discomfort to prevent burdening anybody else. They pretend they’re okay when they’re not. Their emotions are like an exposed nerve. They can feel everything. Cancer individuals also hold on to grudges because they struggle to forget the emotional sting of the past. 

Ruled By The 4th House - Home & Family:

The Fourth House is a house of inheritance in its core, and the sign of Cancer here offers a focus on household matters that came into one’s life only to be resolved. This is a position of appreciation, amazing opportunity, and all challenges left in one’s genes. Emotional concerns will be essential, and the heart often won’t go where it is expected to, simply out of the subconscious need to find what was left by other individuals, grandmas and grandfathers who lost something, have been closed up, or were gone before their time.

The most crucial thing a person needs to discover with this position is the love for oneself and the ability to be gentle and filled with empathy for their own needs. It speaks of closeness with the parents of the opposite sex, but also speaks of the absence of it in a tough setting, and the way it affected all close relationships one can build in their adult life.

Ruled By The Moon:

The Moon is the planet that governs our feelings and emotional response to certain events and people. Cancer is the most maternal, empathic, and nurturing sign of the zodiac, and it allows the Moon’s intuitive nature to shine by strengthening instincts and habits. The Moon gives Cancer individual’s a powerful “sixth sense”. Since Cancer energy is so gentle and sensitive, the Moon can be vulnerable and amplify the most basic survival needs such as the need to feel safe, secure, and nurturing. Cancer individual’s also have a very long memory. This gives them the ability to learn from past mistakes. 

Weakness

“Cancer can be needy in terms of affection which may lead to being overbearing and clinginess. Cancer individuals are also moody, passive-aggressive, and unable to let things go. “

Cancer individuals tend to be quite clingy in terms of affection. They have a rather strong fear of abandonment and they can go to extremes to avoid being left alone. They can also have issues releasing the past. Being deeply sensitive, they forgive, but they always remember.

They can become silent sufferers in the past. They can linger in the past and go back to that scar time and time again, keeping in mind that discomfort and reliving the hurt and pain. When they suffer, they tend to do so alone. Cancer individuals search for security in the convenience of their own solitude. Anything that is painful, insulting, or simply advises them of their insecurities tend to push them back into their shell again.

Strength

“Cancer individuals are nurturing, supportive, and compassionate. They would make great partners because they are unconditionally loving.”

Cancer individuals are deeply loving. They are considered one of the most nurturing signs of the zodiac. Their love of security leads them to take relationships very seriously. They have a great sense of commitment to family and friends and will leave everything in the drop of a hat in order to help those they hold close. Cancer individuals love finding joy in sharing what they have, both in their home and the sense of security that they can supply in the form of recommendations, and care. They can suffer deeply when relationships, romantic or otherwise, don’t end well.

They tend to have an odd funny bone, and can often discover humor in scenarios where others don’t see it. This suggests they are excellent to have around when things are not going well. The Cancer zodiac sign will bring with them their natural understanding of how to take care of individuals together with that humor. They are extremely understanding people and make great friends. They are the one sign in the zodiac that other signs gravitate towards throughout moments of sorrow, because of their desire to listen and ability to comprehend.

Love & Relationships:

When it concerns love and relationships, those born under the Cancer zodiac sign love, and love hard. They do not fall quickly into a relationship, as they need to be sure of themselves prior to exposing their emotions. Walking sideways like the crab, they typically avoid direct gestures of interest, hoping that others take the hint. Once they do fall in love, however, they fall deeply and will take relationships very seriously.

When it concerns love, they are searching for a lover that they can develop a home with. They are really committed lovers and anticipate their love to be the same. Cheating is among the worst headaches of the Cancer zodiac sign. They need to feel loved and appreciated. They will have depressive moods if they feel ignored by their partner. In relationships, they are deeply dependent on their partner’s attention, and some of them might battle with problems of codependency.

Issues within a relationship may lead to some compulsive lying in order to secure themselves. When dating someone under the sign of Cancer, it is very important to keep in mind their insecurities and to forgive little transgressions as they are typically rooted in feeling unloved. Reminding them of just how much you value them and how needed they are is essential to the relationship.

  • Aries: Bloodstone, Diamond, Carnelian
  • Taurus: Emerald, Rose Quartz, Sapphire
  • Gemini: Agate, Citrine, Chrysocolla
  • Cancer: Moonstone, Pearl, Ruby
  • Leo: Amber, Onyx, Peridot
  • Virgo: Amazonite, Sapphire, Sardonyx
  • Libra: Opal, Lapis Lazuli, Tourmaline
  • Scorpio: Topaz, Aquamarine, Malachite
  • Sagittarius: Turquoise, Blue Topaz, Amethyst
  • Capricorn: Garnet, Black Tourmaline, Jet
  • Aquarius: Aquamarine, Garnet, Turquoise
  • Pisces: Amethyst, Jade, Aquamarine

These crystals are believed to resonate strongly with the energies and characteristics associated with each zodiac sign, offering support and alignment on one’s journey.

  • Aries (March 21 – April 19): Bloodstone, Diamond, Carnelian
  • Taurus (April 20 – May 20): Emerald, Rose Quartz, Sapphire
  • Gemini (May 21 – June 20): Agate, Citrine, Chrysocolla
  • Cancer (June 21 – July 22): Moonstone, Pearl, Ruby
  • Leo (July 23 – August 22): Amber, Onyx, Peridot
  • Virgo (August 23 – September 22): Amazonite, Sapphire, Sardonyx
  • Libra (September 23 – October 22): Opal, Lapis Lazuli, Tourmaline
  • Scorpio (October 23 – November 21): Topaz, Aquamarine, Malachite
  • Sagittarius (November 22 – December 21): Turquoise, Blue Topaz, Amethyst
  • Capricorn (December 22 – January 19): Garnet, Black Tourmaline, Jet
  • Aquarius (January 20 – February 18): Aquamarine, Garnet, Turquoise
  • Pisces (February 19 – March 20): Amethyst, Jade, Aquamarine

These stones are believed to resonate strongly with the energies and characteristics associated with each zodiac sign.

  • Crystal Grids for Zodiac Rituals:

    • Enhance your astrological rituals by creating custom crystal grids tailored to the energy of each zodiac sign. Use stones like citrine for Leo to boost confidence or amethyst for Pisces to enhance intuition. Incorporating crystal grids amplifies the potency of your intentions and aligns your practice with celestial energies.
  • Charging Birth Charts with Crystals:

    • Infuse your birth chart readings with crystal energy by placing relevant stones on key astrological points. For example, place carnelian on your Mars sign for vitality or rose quartz on your Venus sign for love. By charging your birth chart with crystals, you deepen your connection to your cosmic blueprint and empower your astrological journey.
  • Astrological Crystal Meditation:

    • Incorporate crystals into your meditation practice to align with astrological energies and deepen your spiritual connection. Choose stones that resonate with the current astrological season or your personal astrological placements. For instance, meditate with malachite during Taurus season to ground your energy or with moonstone during Cancer season to enhance intuition.

Examples of Intention Setting with Crystals:

  • Physical Healing: “I program this crystal to support my body’s natural healing process and promote overall well-being.”
  • Emotional Support: “I set the intention for this crystal to foster calmness, reduce anxiety, and bring emotional balance.”
  • Spiritual Growth: “I imbue this crystal with the intention to deepen my connection to my spiritual self and enhance my intuition.”
  • Manifestation: “I program this crystal to attract abundance, success, and positive opportunities into my life.”

Tips for Effective Intention Setting:

  • Clarity: Be clear and concise in your intention. The more specific you are, the better.
  • Positive Framing: Focus on positive affirmations rather than negations. Instead of “I want to reduce stress,” say “I choose to experience calmness and peace.”
  • Visualization: Visualize your desired outcome as you set your intention.
  • Gratitude: Express gratitude to the crystal for its potential support.

Examples of Crystal-Chakra Alignment:

  1. Root Chakra (Base of Spine): Associated with grounding, stability, and security. Crystals like bloodstone, red jasper, and black tourmaline are commonly used.

  2. Sacral Chakra (Lower Abdomen): Associated with creativity, passion, and sensuality. Crystals like carnelian, orange calcite, and amber are often used.

  3. Solar Plexus Chakra (Upper Abdomen): Associated with personal power, confidence, and self-esteem. Crystals like citrine, yellow jasper, and tiger’s eye are commonly used.

  4. Heart Chakra (Center of Chest): Associated with love, compassion, and empathy. Crystals like rose quartz, green aventurine, and malachite are often used.

  5. Throat Chakra (Throat): Associated with communication, truth, and self-expression. Crystals like sodalite, celestite, and aquamarine are commonly used.

  6. Third Eye Chakra (Brow): Associated with intuition, wisdom, and imagination. Crystals like amethyst, lapis lazuli, and fluorite are often used.

  7. Crown Chakra (Top of Head): Associated with spirituality, connection to the divine, and enlightenment. Crystals like clear quartz, amethyst, and selenite are commonly used.

  • Love and Self-Compassion: Rose quartz, known as the “Stone of Love,” is associated with emotional healing, self-acceptance, and fostering feelings of love.
  • Focus and Concentration: Amethyst is believed to promote mental clarity, focus, and memory, making it a popular choice for students and professionals during demanding tasks.
  • Stress and Anxiety Relief: Lepidolite, with its calming and balancing properties, is thought to reduce negativity and promote relaxation, aiding in stress and anxiety management.
  • Creativity and Inspiration: Citrine, often called the “Success Stone,” is believed to stimulate creativity, increase motivation, and attract abundance, making it a valuable tool for entrepreneurs and artists.
  • Sleep and Relaxation: Selenite, known for its cleansing and purifying properties, is believed to promote peaceful sleep and tranquility by creating a calming environment.
  1. Mark the Season: Take note of the upcoming equinoxes or solstices, which mark significant shifts in the Earth’s seasons and energies. Consider researching the astrological significance of these events to deepen your understanding.

  2. Create a Ritual Space: Set aside time to honor the changing season in a space that feels sacred to you. This could be indoors or outdoors, depending on your preference and availability.

  3. Connect with Nature: Spend time in nature, whether it’s a walk in the woods, a visit to the beach, or simply sitting in your backyard. Take time to observe the changes happening around you and reflect on the rhythms of the natural world.

  4. Express Gratitude: Use this time to express gratitude for the abundance in your life and the blessings of the season. You may choose to journal, create artwork, or simply speak aloud your thanks to the universe.

Prepare Your Space: Find a quiet and comfortable space where you can engage in your eclipse ritual without distractions. Consider setting up an altar with items that hold personal significance to you, such as crystals, candles, or symbols of transformation.

Set Intentions: Reflect on the energies of the eclipse and what transformations you wish to manifest in your life. Write down your intentions on a piece of paper, focusing on areas where you seek growth, healing, or spiritual awakening.

Engage in Ritual: During the eclipse, whether it’s visible in your area or not, take time to meditate, pray, or perform rituals that resonate with you. You may choose to light candles, burn incense, or use sound instruments to create a sacred atmosphere and deepen your connection to the cosmic energies.

Release and Surrender: As you engage in your eclipse ritual, let go of any attachments or limitations that no longer serve you. Trust in the process of transformation and allow yourself to surrender to the flow of cosmic energy.

  1. Preparation: Create a sacred space by clearing clutter and lighting candles or incense. You may also want to take a cleansing bath or smudge yourself with sage to purify your energy.

  2. Write Down What to Release: Take a piece of paper and write down anything you wish to release, such as negative emotions, old patterns, or limiting beliefs. Be honest and specific about what you want to let go of.

  3. Release Ceremony: Go outside under the light of the Full Moon or find a window where you can see the moon. Hold your written intentions in your hands and speak them aloud, declaring your readiness to release them. Then, tear up the paper or burn it in a fireproof container as a symbolic act of release.

  4. Meditation and Reflection: Sit quietly and meditate on the space you’ve created within yourself by letting go. Reflect on how you feel lighter and more free without the weight of what you’ve released.

  5. Closing: Close the ritual with a few deep breaths and a sense of gratitude for the opportunity to release what no longer serves you. Thank the moon and any spiritual guides or higher powers you work with for their support.

Full Moon image

Set the Scene: Find a quiet and comfortable space where you won’t be disturbed. Light a candle and set up any other items that help create a sacred atmosphere, such as crystals or incense.

Reflect and Clarify: Take a few moments to center yourself and reflect on your goals and desires. What do you want to manifest in your life? Write down your intentions on a piece of paper, focusing on what you want to create or attract.

Visualize and Affirm: Close your eyes and visualize yourself already experiencing your intentions as if they have already come true. Feel the emotions associated with achieving your goals. Then, recite your intentions aloud as affirmations, speaking them into existence.

Release and Surrender: After stating your intentions, release them to the universe with a sense of trust and surrender. Let go of any attachment to the outcome and trust that the universe will support you in manifesting your desires.

Gratitude Practice: Express gratitude for the blessings in your life and for the opportunity to set intentions for positive change. Close the ritual with a moment of gratitude and appreciation.

New Moon Ritual